Some Of The Causes Of Stale S*x
Stale s*x is a major relationship/marriage killer; it has accounted for the death of many relationships; it’s a death trap and one that should be avoided.
Like I’ve mentioned in a previous article, stale s*x is when your s*x life with your partner becomes rut. Stale s*x is when the sex becomes boring, passionless and unenjoyable. This doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t love your partner anymore, but there is just something about your s*x life with your partner that’s dead.
The bad news is; if you don’t do something about stale s*x, it would definitely bring harm to your relationship. Stale s*x is like a virus that should be avoided at all cost.
Below are 6 things couples should be wary of:
1. BUSY LIFESTYLES
Busy lifestyles are one of the major reasons couples experience stale s*x. Being too busy means you would be too apart from your partner and that could kill the intimacy in that relationship on the long run. Busy lifestyles would mean you would be too tired to have s*x almost every night, and like they say “if you don’t use it, you might just lose it”.
2. BEING RIGID
Rigidity in your s*x life could as well kill the sexual experience. When it’s always the same routine, no act of spontaneity, when couples are too scared to try out new things then their s*x life might experience a rut. When you get too used to s*x with your partner, it could kill the passion, causing stale s*x in return.
3. INFREQUENT S*X
For some reasons, some couples go for weeks and months without having s*x; sometimes it’s an unwillingness of one partner to have s*x leading to sexual starvation of the other partner. To a certain level, there should be frequent s*x among partners, because when it becomes too infrequent, when there is hardly ever any time for it, when s*x no longer means anything to both partners then the relationship would suffer.
4. LACK OF COMMUNICATION
As far as relationships are concerned, communication is needed in every aspect, the sexual life as well. Sometimes couples hit a setback in their intimacy levels due to lack of communication. You shouldn’t be shy to tell your partner what you want in bed, you shouldn’t be shy to tell your partner when you feel something is going wrong; this would mean suffering in silence and that can cause stale s*x big time.
5. HARBOURING GRUDGES
When you harbour grudges against your partner, it would definitely affect the s*x too. S*x is best enjoyed when both partners are happy and satisfied with each other. But when malice, unforgiving hearts, grudges, retaliation and all sorts exist in a relationship, the s*x would most definitely rut.
6. STRESS
Stress is bad business as far as s*x and health are concerned. Stress can kill your libido, it can make you not attracted to your partner or act so irritably, it can affect fertility and menstrual cycle, and it can also kill hormones responsible for certain sexual behaviours.
Like I’ve mentioned in a previous article, stale s*x is when your s*x life with your partner becomes rut. Stale s*x is when the sex becomes boring, passionless and unenjoyable. This doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t love your partner anymore, but there is just something about your s*x life with your partner that’s dead.
The bad news is; if you don’t do something about stale s*x, it would definitely bring harm to your relationship. Stale s*x is like a virus that should be avoided at all cost.
Below are 6 things couples should be wary of:
1. BUSY LIFESTYLES
Busy lifestyles are one of the major reasons couples experience stale s*x. Being too busy means you would be too apart from your partner and that could kill the intimacy in that relationship on the long run. Busy lifestyles would mean you would be too tired to have s*x almost every night, and like they say “if you don’t use it, you might just lose it”.
2. BEING RIGID
Rigidity in your s*x life could as well kill the sexual experience. When it’s always the same routine, no act of spontaneity, when couples are too scared to try out new things then their s*x life might experience a rut. When you get too used to s*x with your partner, it could kill the passion, causing stale s*x in return.
3. INFREQUENT S*X
For some reasons, some couples go for weeks and months without having s*x; sometimes it’s an unwillingness of one partner to have s*x leading to sexual starvation of the other partner. To a certain level, there should be frequent s*x among partners, because when it becomes too infrequent, when there is hardly ever any time for it, when s*x no longer means anything to both partners then the relationship would suffer.
4. LACK OF COMMUNICATION
As far as relationships are concerned, communication is needed in every aspect, the sexual life as well. Sometimes couples hit a setback in their intimacy levels due to lack of communication. You shouldn’t be shy to tell your partner what you want in bed, you shouldn’t be shy to tell your partner when you feel something is going wrong; this would mean suffering in silence and that can cause stale s*x big time.
5. HARBOURING GRUDGES
When you harbour grudges against your partner, it would definitely affect the s*x too. S*x is best enjoyed when both partners are happy and satisfied with each other. But when malice, unforgiving hearts, grudges, retaliation and all sorts exist in a relationship, the s*x would most definitely rut.
6. STRESS
Stress is bad business as far as s*x and health are concerned. Stress can kill your libido, it can make you not attracted to your partner or act so irritably, it can affect fertility and menstrual cycle, and it can also kill hormones responsible for certain sexual behaviours.
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