Signs To Show You Are Not Really In Love
Sometimes, emotions could be a bit confusing; you could like someone and feel you are in love with that person. Sometimes you could just like the idea of being in a relationship with that person, but deep down you don’t really love that person.
Also, love and lust tend to get mixed up too. Feelings of being wanted by someone else could make you believe you are in love.
These signs below show that you aren’t really in love.
1. YOU ARE INTERESTED IN OTHERS: When you are also attracted to some other person, and many other people, that could just be a sign that it’s attraction and not love.
Love is a greater emotion than attraction, and it somehow leaves you wanting more from that person to the extent that you don’t even remember to flirt with another. The feeling of being in love with someone could make it just be about them. But when you are here and there, then it isn’t love.
2. IT’S ALWAYS ABOUT YOU: Love isn’t selfish; you can’t be in love and be selfish to your partner. When you think only about yourself, want things to be your way all the time and care less about how your partner feels, then you aren’t really in love.
Inasmuch as humans are selfish beings, love counters that.
3. YOU DON’T BUILD FRIENDSHIP WITH THAT PERSON: It’s hard to be in love with someone and not build friendship with that person. Love connects hearts together, and this is why you tend to miss each other very often and seek for togetherness very often.
When you aren’t interested in building friendship with that person you claim to love, then it isn’t really love.
4. YOU AREN’T ATTRACTED: Attraction might not bring love, but love brings attraction. Love could even make you become blind to someone’s fault; not that you don’t notice, but you don’t take it to heart. This is why people in love forgive easily.
5. YOU FEEL BETTER WITHOUT THAT PERSON: When you would rather be alone than be with that person, then it isn’t love. When you would rather be with other people and not that person then it isn’t love.
6. YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT PLEASING YOURSELF: If you don’t think about making that other person happy and doing things for them, then you aren’t in love. You can’t be in love with someone and not think of bettering that person or making them happier — it’s just not possible.
7. YOU QUESTION YOUR LOVE: When you even have to question how you feel, then it means something isn’t right.
8. Love makes you forgive more, carry less grudges, apologise more, work more to make things better. But when it’s missing, all that would be missing too.
People mistake wanting to be in a relationship with someone as a feeling of love, but it doesn’t just end at that; it’s more, way more.
Love is a greater emotion than attraction, and it somehow leaves you wanting more from that person to the extent that you don’t even remember to flirt with another. The feeling of being in love with someone could make it just be about them. But when you are here and there, then it isn’t love.
2. IT’S ALWAYS ABOUT YOU: Love isn’t selfish; you can’t be in love and be selfish to your partner. When you think only about yourself, want things to be your way all the time and care less about how your partner feels, then you aren’t really in love.
Inasmuch as humans are selfish beings, love counters that.
3. YOU DON’T BUILD FRIENDSHIP WITH THAT PERSON: It’s hard to be in love with someone and not build friendship with that person. Love connects hearts together, and this is why you tend to miss each other very often and seek for togetherness very often.
When you aren’t interested in building friendship with that person you claim to love, then it isn’t really love.
4. YOU AREN’T ATTRACTED: Attraction might not bring love, but love brings attraction. Love could even make you become blind to someone’s fault; not that you don’t notice, but you don’t take it to heart. This is why people in love forgive easily.
5. YOU FEEL BETTER WITHOUT THAT PERSON: When you would rather be alone than be with that person, then it isn’t love. When you would rather be with other people and not that person then it isn’t love.
6. YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT PLEASING YOURSELF: If you don’t think about making that other person happy and doing things for them, then you aren’t in love. You can’t be in love with someone and not think of bettering that person or making them happier — it’s just not possible.
7. YOU QUESTION YOUR LOVE: When you even have to question how you feel, then it means something isn’t right.
8. Love makes you forgive more, carry less grudges, apologise more, work more to make things better. But when it’s missing, all that would be missing too.
People mistake wanting to be in a relationship with someone as a feeling of love, but it doesn’t just end at that; it’s more, way more.
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